Most of the time love is thought of as a feeling, a raw emotional response of affection towards some desired object. We love pizza, our dogs, family, significant other. “Love is a many splendoured thing”, “Love lifts us up where we belong”, “All you need is love”, “Love is a battlefield”. On the other hand, it has also been said that love is an ability, something you can actually practice and get better at. So, what is love, actually? (And how do you get better at it?)